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2022.01.28 03:54 Woppa02 My Stepmom's Daughter Is My Ex
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2023.05.31 18:18 Zj2892 Stepmom playmate nylon footjob and my old caught masturbating Arts And
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2023.05.31 18:04 ThrowawayGiftRecipe AITA for giving my great aunt’s recipes to my stepbrother to be commercially used
My (24f) great aunt passed away a while back. She was my grandpa’s sister and when my grandma passed shortly after the birth of her 2nd child, my great aunt moved in with my grandpa to help him raise his children. She never married or had children of her own.
Since my grandpa already passed away almost a decade ago, after my great aunt’s death my dad and aunt just basically split anything of values in half. My grandpa already sold their childhood home before his death so other than money there wasn’t a lot to pass down. My great aunt, however, was an artist, so there were sketchbooks lying around. She was also a great cook and had scribbled her recipes all over, some on the back pages of the sketchbook. They were shared among the grandkids, me and my cousins. I received 4 sketchbooks as my “inheritance.”
My parents divorced when I was young. My mom went to live in her wife’s country, so I spent most time with my dad. He remarried when I was 11 and my stepmom had a son Jacob who’s the same age. Jacob and I get along wonderfully. I consider him both my brother and one of my closest friends. We lived 3 hour away from my extended family so they weren’t close with Jacob who often spent Christmas with his dad.
Jacob went to culinary school after a year in college and not liking it. He now works in a bakery while also selling custom order cookies and cakes and other sweets via online channels.
Since Jacob was making the sweets for sale, I thought he would benefit from my great aunt’s recipes more than me, so I gave him copies of the recipes. He was really excited and said he would work on “prettying up” the finished products a bit and have them ready for custom orders.
As it turned out, my great aunt’s recipes were a big hit, big enough that Jacob needed to set the number of orders he could manage at a period of time and have customers placing orders in advance. I did receive my royalties in the form of food being periodically mailed straight to my front door which worked just great.
One of my cousins follows Jacob on social media and learned of the recipes behind Jacob’s products. She then told the rest of the family and everyone was upset that I allowed my great aunt’s recipes to be commercially used like this. They said Jacob should pay for the recipes because he’s making major profits from them.
I was like that’s ridiculous. The recipes are mine and I refuse to charge my brother for them. My cousins told me that to be fair the profits from the recipes should be shared among the family of my great aunt and Jacob should not get to just reap benefits from our family recipes.
My dad stayed out of it but agreed with me that I was free to share the recipes with whoever I wished. I just told my cousins that should any of them plan to open a bakery, I will stop Jacob from using the recipes as to not be a threat to them. In the meantime, they’re not to bother Jacob in any way. My cousins called me selfish and refused to talk to me. AITA?
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Since my grandpa already passed away almost a decade ago, after my great aunt’s death my dad and aunt just basically split anything of values in half. My grandpa already sold their childhood home before his death so other than money there wasn’t a lot to pass down. My great aunt, however, was an artist, so there were sketchbooks lying around. She was also a great cook and had scribbled her recipes all over, some on the back pages of the sketchbook. They were shared among the grandkids, me and my cousins. I received 4 sketchbooks as my “inheritance.”
My parents divorced when I was young. My mom went to live in her wife’s country, so I spent most time with my dad. He remarried when I was 11 and my stepmom had a son Jacob who’s the same age. Jacob and I get along wonderfully. I consider him both my brother and one of my closest friends. We lived 3 hour away from my extended family so they weren’t close with Jacob who often spent Christmas with his dad.
Jacob went to culinary school after a year in college and not liking it. He now works in a bakery while also selling custom order cookies and cakes and other sweets via online channels.
Since Jacob was making the sweets for sale, I thought he would benefit from my great aunt’s recipes more than me, so I gave him copies of the recipes. He was really excited and said he would work on “prettying up” the finished products a bit and have them ready for custom orders.
As it turned out, my great aunt’s recipes were a big hit, big enough that Jacob needed to set the number of orders he could manage at a period of time and have customers placing orders in advance. I did receive my royalties in the form of food being periodically mailed straight to my front door which worked just great.
One of my cousins follows Jacob on social media and learned of the recipes behind Jacob’s products. She then told the rest of the family and everyone was upset that I allowed my great aunt’s recipes to be commercially used like this. They said Jacob should pay for the recipes because he’s making major profits from them.
I was like that’s ridiculous. The recipes are mine and I refuse to charge my brother for them. My cousins told me that to be fair the profits from the recipes should be shared among the family of my great aunt and Jacob should not get to just reap benefits from our family recipes.
My dad stayed out of it but agreed with me that I was free to share the recipes with whoever I wished. I just told my cousins that should any of them plan to open a bakery, I will stop Jacob from using the recipes as to not be a threat to them. In the meantime, they’re not to bother Jacob in any way. My cousins called me selfish and refused to talk to me. AITA?
2023.05.31 18:01 pulgarcitaaa While my stepmom is cooking dinner my girlfriend licks my pussy - Lesbian Illusion Girls
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2023.05.31 17:45 Fj6886 MommyBlowsBest - My Blonde Stepmom Gets Her Big Titties Fucked Hard
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2023.05.31 17:29 Extraterretre My StepMom Is My Teacher as well!
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2023.05.31 17:27 Porfaaa Almost Caught By StepMom Fucking My StepSisters In Halloween Costumes
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2023.05.31 17:19 DigiAnimus What do you all do to keep a healthy routine as neurodivergent adults?
Hi, new to this reddit. I am M21 with high-functioning autism. Lately, I have been having issues staying motivated on promises and keeping a healthy routine. My day usually goes to helping my stepmom and brothers leave for work/school, playing video games for a couple hours with breakfast, doing either housework or homework (because I am in college), eat lunch, do more homework/chores/video games, and then clean up the house a bit for preparation of my tamily. Whenever I am doing tasks and chores, if I had done a lot of work the previous day, I don't have any motivation to do any rigorous work and push it to the side for the next day. I am getting yelled at because it seems like to my family that I am lazy and selfish. How do you all keep motivated with such tasks?
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2023.05.31 16:51 Extraterretre Almost Caught By StepMom Fucking My StepSisters In Halloween Costumes
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2023.05.31 16:43 Mrs_Kennedy I've realized my husbands mom is a Narcissist.
Hi all I'm new to this sub, but not new to the world of narcissists. Back in 2019 I realized my own mother is a Narc and have been on a painful but healing journey since, just yesterday after some conversation with my therapist I came to realize my husband's mom is also a narc and it explains so much about him and his parents divorce and how he still holds her in such high regard even tho I see now she's discarded him (he was the GC his whole life). We're in the process of moving right now and he's in a separate city from me so I've been able to process all the thoughts and feelings alone, what I'm worried about is we have a super honest relationship ( makes sense coming from households filled with lies) and I don't know how to not talk to him about this whether it be completely openly or starting to suggest I notice similarities between his mom and mine. His stepmom seems to think only a man can suggest to him that his mom is a N and it's not my place to talk to my husband about it but I feel differently. Has anyone been in a situation where they figured it out before their spouse and was the one to tell them? And any advice is helpful, I think right now I'm going to try and wait until we each get established with our new therapists in the new city.
And for me I'm sad because I wouldn't wish a Narc parent on any one even my worst enemy let alone my husband whom I love dearly, I know all to well what he has to face if he chooses to see the truth whether from me or anyone else and it breaks my heart.
A little more context on my mom she is a covert and I've been NC for 4 years now and have been doing well through continuous therapy, all my sibs are turned against me and I am the SG always have been except for a brief time when I was dating my husband. I hold my parents deepest secret of all the SA they put me through so they were quick to cut me out when I got married and moved out. I also came to the realization that my mom was a Narc after someone suggested to me she was and gave me a lot of recourses to learn about it.
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And for me I'm sad because I wouldn't wish a Narc parent on any one even my worst enemy let alone my husband whom I love dearly, I know all to well what he has to face if he chooses to see the truth whether from me or anyone else and it breaks my heart.
A little more context on my mom she is a covert and I've been NC for 4 years now and have been doing well through continuous therapy, all my sibs are turned against me and I am the SG always have been except for a brief time when I was dating my husband. I hold my parents deepest secret of all the SA they put me through so they were quick to cut me out when I got married and moved out. I also came to the realization that my mom was a Narc after someone suggested to me she was and gave me a lot of recourses to learn about it.
2023.05.31 16:37 Db9210 Appreciating My Stepmom On Valentine's Day When Won't - MommyBlowsBest
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2023.05.31 16:19 ObviouslyIshould My (28M) mother (49F) called me crying again today, I wish someone loved her enough to tell her to stop.
My mother was mentally unstable growing up. Admittedly she had her reasons, admittedly I don’t care.
My dad (60M) was not a good husband to her, and she can’t understand why I would have a relationship with him, because of that, but the fact is, him being a bad husband to her, didn’t mean he was a bad dad to me.
And I worked hard to walk on eggshells with her, right up until their divorce proceedings started, and she came out the gate, trying to get Emergency custody of myself and my younger brothers, claiming my father was emotionally, physically, and sexually abusive to her and all of us, and told me that if I didn’t tell them that my father had been beating and raping us, we would be put into the foster care system- I didn’t believe her, because I was 14, and it didn’t go through.
Spoiler alert. My father certainly has a temper, but he’s just loud, and the only one who’s ever been physically violent is her. And yeah, he was cheating with my now stepmom. But to be Frank? With what he was putting up with from my mother… I’m still not okay with cheating, at all, but I understand.
She constantly insisted growing up that if I didn’t “pull myself together” I would be a drug addict and an abuser, just like everyone else in my family, and that every time I saw my dad I acted more like him, and that one day all I would be is a predator like him.
I admit that as a nasty 16 year old I threw shit into her face when she said things like that, things I’m not proud of, and would never say now, especially knowing what I know now. And one day, I was going on like that, screaming things that I now regret at her, and she did it.
She hauled off and socked me in the jaw, busted one of my teeth, and it was plenty enough to make sure me and my brothers got to stay at my dads house, with our stepmom who makes dinner every night, and 5 dogs to play with, and a dad who isn’t anywhere near as loud as he was living with that demon of a woman.
I know she had to go through intense therapy, and that me and my brothers refused to see her during this time, and she cried and begged and apologized. Eventually we had to go back (my brothers had to go back, and I wasn’t letting them go alone) but she stopped starting fights with me after that, and I stopped talking to her together.
Both my brothers still have contact with her, but one is gay, (may adopt someday, but not anytime soon) and the other has already had a vasectomy because the idea of having children “itches”- his word.
I am the only one who doesn’t have contact. I’m also the only one with children.
She caught me in public once, six years ago, and asked when she would get to meet my firstborn- I asked “Why? So you can convince him he’s a rapist before he even has his first kiss?” I also said some things I’m not proud of that day.
She calls me semi-regularly from different numbers, but my phone is set so I only even am notified of numbers I have saved. But I still get the voicemails. “Please- I’ve been through therapy, I know I was wrong- I know I can never fix what happened with you, but please can I just meet my grandkids?”
And it’s first, it felt good to know she was going through hell. Then it got annoying. Now I just pity her. How many times is she gonna try before giving up? How has no one in her life, my brothers included told her she's only embarrassing herself? Or maybe they have. If so? She’s a bigger loon than I thought.
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My dad (60M) was not a good husband to her, and she can’t understand why I would have a relationship with him, because of that, but the fact is, him being a bad husband to her, didn’t mean he was a bad dad to me.
And I worked hard to walk on eggshells with her, right up until their divorce proceedings started, and she came out the gate, trying to get Emergency custody of myself and my younger brothers, claiming my father was emotionally, physically, and sexually abusive to her and all of us, and told me that if I didn’t tell them that my father had been beating and raping us, we would be put into the foster care system- I didn’t believe her, because I was 14, and it didn’t go through.
Spoiler alert. My father certainly has a temper, but he’s just loud, and the only one who’s ever been physically violent is her. And yeah, he was cheating with my now stepmom. But to be Frank? With what he was putting up with from my mother… I’m still not okay with cheating, at all, but I understand.
She constantly insisted growing up that if I didn’t “pull myself together” I would be a drug addict and an abuser, just like everyone else in my family, and that every time I saw my dad I acted more like him, and that one day all I would be is a predator like him.
I admit that as a nasty 16 year old I threw shit into her face when she said things like that, things I’m not proud of, and would never say now, especially knowing what I know now. And one day, I was going on like that, screaming things that I now regret at her, and she did it.
She hauled off and socked me in the jaw, busted one of my teeth, and it was plenty enough to make sure me and my brothers got to stay at my dads house, with our stepmom who makes dinner every night, and 5 dogs to play with, and a dad who isn’t anywhere near as loud as he was living with that demon of a woman.
I know she had to go through intense therapy, and that me and my brothers refused to see her during this time, and she cried and begged and apologized. Eventually we had to go back (my brothers had to go back, and I wasn’t letting them go alone) but she stopped starting fights with me after that, and I stopped talking to her together.
Both my brothers still have contact with her, but one is gay, (may adopt someday, but not anytime soon) and the other has already had a vasectomy because the idea of having children “itches”- his word.
I am the only one who doesn’t have contact. I’m also the only one with children.
She caught me in public once, six years ago, and asked when she would get to meet my firstborn- I asked “Why? So you can convince him he’s a rapist before he even has his first kiss?” I also said some things I’m not proud of that day.
She calls me semi-regularly from different numbers, but my phone is set so I only even am notified of numbers I have saved. But I still get the voicemails. “Please- I’ve been through therapy, I know I was wrong- I know I can never fix what happened with you, but please can I just meet my grandkids?”
And it’s first, it felt good to know she was going through hell. Then it got annoying. Now I just pity her. How many times is she gonna try before giving up? How has no one in her life, my brothers included told her she's only embarrassing herself? Or maybe they have. If so? She’s a bigger loon than I thought.
2023.05.31 15:24 Zj2892 We had a funny jerkoff competition but my stepmom busted us and she was shocked
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2023.05.31 14:36 Jd0266 Appreciating My Stepmom On Valentine's Day When Won't - MommyBlowsBest
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2023.05.31 12:10 Accomplished_Put436 Soft Parenting?
How are you holding up, everyone? I live with my step-mom (at our family home). She has raised me since I was around 8 if my memory serves me right. Now, I have a son who is a little bit over hyper. He barely sits still and often want to play around with thing in the house. I don't mind him doing that, provided it's not something that can harm him or can be damaged. My stepmom, on the other hand, finds faults in everything he does and beats him at the slightest mistake. She also shouts at him all the time, and I feel this might instill fear. She also scolds me that I am too soft on him, yet I feel some things are not worth punishing him for. Note, she doesn't treat her other grandkids (from her own children) in the same manner. I'm I overthinking. I'd love to get your thoughts, please.
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2023.05.31 10:43 luv_sweet_cheesecake 10 years of YJHD, one of my favourite film
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2023.05.31 09:26 TheHermitBot Where to buy fancy gourmet gifts in Taipei?
Hi folks, hoping to get some recommendations from people who know Taipei well.
I'm based in southern Taiwan but visiting Taipei for my Taiwanese stepmom's birthday this weekend. She enjoys good food so I'm thinking of buying something like a gourmet gift box or basket there.
Any recommendations for stores in Taipei that sells gourmet gifts in beautiful fancy packaging?
Bonus points if:
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I'm based in southern Taiwan but visiting Taipei for my Taiwanese stepmom's birthday this weekend. She enjoys good food so I'm thinking of buying something like a gourmet gift box or basket there.
Any recommendations for stores in Taipei that sells gourmet gifts in beautiful fancy packaging?
Bonus points if:
- Gourmet gift is western / japanese / novelty (she has a broad palate)
- Within a budget of about $25-$100 (USD)
2023.05.31 08:11 Highlight-Proper How can I be more supportive of DH?
I am the stepmom to two kids (SD11 & SS7). I have my own kid (D8) and we have an ours baby(1.5) . My SK have been complaining about having to come to our home recently ( DH has 50/50). Our house is the rules house. Our rules are nothing major, mainly be kind to one another, pick up after yourself communal areas, share and take turns with preferred family items (like video games). We also have bedtimes of 8:30 on school nights. SKs are complaining about having to come to our house because of the rules. Last week they even convinced their parents to let them stay an extra night at their mom’s because they were having a rough time transitioning. I feel for my husband, and it broke my heart to see the tears in his eyes when they didn’t want to come because of the rules. For me, I don’t feel comfortable giving even more loose boundaries for them. At their mom’s house, they watch what they want (shows rated MA), go to bed later, sleep in the same bed as their mom, have the limited amount of food that they will eat always provided and are allowed to have unlimited friends over and sleepovers. I do not feel comfortable and feel that it is important to have some structure and rules at home. My husband also believes that having basic rules is important and is in no way advocating to change our boundaries. It is breaking his heart. I grew up with married parents and have never experienced this. My husband is terrified they will resent him forever and he will lose them. I have heard from my friends who grew up in split houses that they respect their parent who tried to keep some boundaries up more than the more laissez-faire type. So a couple of questions, how can I help support my husband? If you grew up in a split household how do you feel about your “more strict” parent as an adult?
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2023.05.31 07:32 Potential_Caramel246 I cant keep living with my mom
this is my first post so sorry, but I really just need advice on how to go about getting out of her house
for context im a 16 year old guy and my parents are divorced (50/50 custody) and i really want to live with just my dad. my mom is a verbally abusive alcoholic and has gotten close to getting physical, but she knows ill just tell my dad and get her custody taken. which i know would be the best thing, but i dont want to ruin things for my siblings, so my goal is for me to be allowed to just stay with my dad. She also allows her fiance to completely disrespect me as a person (just basic shit like treating me as though im not an intelligent being with thoughts and feelings, as well as getting in my face during arguments and threatening to get physical with me; acting like hes some macho man)
my dad experienced the exact same abuse from her for years, so he knows what shes like. He just doesnt want to go through the trouble of fighting with her (i dont blame him she fucking sucks), and i need to figure out how to convince him. my stepmom and i talk about it often, and my dad agrees i should just live with them, but still nothing has been done. how should I bring this up to him in a way that will get him to actually help me out of her house.
again this is my first post so sorry for my formatting but i really need help
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for context im a 16 year old guy and my parents are divorced (50/50 custody) and i really want to live with just my dad. my mom is a verbally abusive alcoholic and has gotten close to getting physical, but she knows ill just tell my dad and get her custody taken. which i know would be the best thing, but i dont want to ruin things for my siblings, so my goal is for me to be allowed to just stay with my dad. She also allows her fiance to completely disrespect me as a person (just basic shit like treating me as though im not an intelligent being with thoughts and feelings, as well as getting in my face during arguments and threatening to get physical with me; acting like hes some macho man)
my dad experienced the exact same abuse from her for years, so he knows what shes like. He just doesnt want to go through the trouble of fighting with her (i dont blame him she fucking sucks), and i need to figure out how to convince him. my stepmom and i talk about it often, and my dad agrees i should just live with them, but still nothing has been done. how should I bring this up to him in a way that will get him to actually help me out of her house.
again this is my first post so sorry for my formatting but i really need help
2023.05.31 07:21 Outrageous-River3744 My mom is engaged and I'm not happy for her
My (17/F) bio mom (47/F) has informed me that her and her now fiancé (35/M) are engaged as of Saturday night, and I'm not happy for her.
My mom cheated on my dad with multiple men and she was very narcissistic and me and my dad were her victims. My dad stayed married to her because he didn't trust her to raise me if they divorced while I was young so he stayed married to her unhappily for 9 more years because he didn't want to lose me because of her. In February of 2021, she couldn't choose other men over her marriage and me so she left and abandoned me. She would still text me, but it'd be very short and dry because I didn't know what to say. I don't know why, but the part of me that wanted validation from my mother tried everything to get her approval. She made a Tinder account for me and sent photos of me to different men because she said I needed to "get back out there and get over my ex." After some heated going back and forth, she deleted the account. I stopped going to her house in July of 2021 because I was just done with her and I've been living with my dad full time ever since then the divorce was final.
She started dating her now fiancé in February of 2022 and took on the stepmother role of his 9 year old daughter, which hurts me because she's loving and nurturing to her, but she never was loving and nurturing to me. In the time I haven't seen her, it's either heated arguments over text about the fact that she's not a changed person and I don't need/deserve her negativity because she's jealous that I want to live with my dad and stepmom. She doesn't send me birthday gifts, Christmas gifts, nothing. My dad hates this because he told me that if the roles were reversed and I wanted nothing to do with him, he'd send me a birthday present and Christmas present because I'm still his kid.
Her fiancé seems like an okay guy, but something that creeps me out is that he's seen photos of me and said, "oh, my god, she's SUCH a beauty" I don't know, but that gives me the creeps. I admit, I'm pretty good looking: 5 foot 5, nice teeth, nose piercing, beautiful hair and eyes, the whole package, but a comment like that from a 35 year old man just creeps me out. I thought about meeting him, but I never wanted to because I never felt comfortable enough to see him in person due to the vibe I get from him just from the photos of him my mom's sent me.
She sent me a photo of the ring and it looks fake, not gonna lie. My dad commented that it looked like a ring he got her years ago, but isn't the exact ring. My stepmom said it looked like it was from a pawn shop.
I was talking to my paternal grandma Saturday afternoon and we were talking about how if my mom marries this guy, her true colors are going to come out if they haven't already and literally a few hours later, I get informed that my mom's engaged, so I texted my grandma and said, "so this happened, what a coincidence, am I right?" We started talking about it a little bit and I half jokingly half seriously said that for a wedding present, I'd gift her a book on cheating and abandoning children and my grandma said "you are definitely my granddaughter," then she said, "I'll bring the black paint to decorate her heart." We laughed about it a little bit and my best friend called me to check on me since she was with me when I got the message and she asked if I was going to tell my mom how I felt about this, and I said, "No, I'm not gonna mess with this. They're adults, and they can do what they want. I have to be the bigger person and let nature run its course. Does it suck? Yes, but what can I do about it?"
I'm not happy because after the pain she's caused to a lot of people, I feel like she doesn't deserve to have this happiness. If anything, I'm worried for her fiancé's daughter because she's only 9 years old, and if my mom shows her true colors, his daughter is going to get hurt and probably never come back from it. I thought about getting his number and telling him all my mom's done, but I didn't do it because he's a grown ass man, he can do what he wants and date/marry who he wants, and if he finds out the hard way, I guess he finds out the hard way. I told my dad this and he told me I should let her fiancé figure it out himself and let him come up with what to do regarding his daughter's safety.
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My mom cheated on my dad with multiple men and she was very narcissistic and me and my dad were her victims. My dad stayed married to her because he didn't trust her to raise me if they divorced while I was young so he stayed married to her unhappily for 9 more years because he didn't want to lose me because of her. In February of 2021, she couldn't choose other men over her marriage and me so she left and abandoned me. She would still text me, but it'd be very short and dry because I didn't know what to say. I don't know why, but the part of me that wanted validation from my mother tried everything to get her approval. She made a Tinder account for me and sent photos of me to different men because she said I needed to "get back out there and get over my ex." After some heated going back and forth, she deleted the account. I stopped going to her house in July of 2021 because I was just done with her and I've been living with my dad full time ever since then the divorce was final.
She started dating her now fiancé in February of 2022 and took on the stepmother role of his 9 year old daughter, which hurts me because she's loving and nurturing to her, but she never was loving and nurturing to me. In the time I haven't seen her, it's either heated arguments over text about the fact that she's not a changed person and I don't need/deserve her negativity because she's jealous that I want to live with my dad and stepmom. She doesn't send me birthday gifts, Christmas gifts, nothing. My dad hates this because he told me that if the roles were reversed and I wanted nothing to do with him, he'd send me a birthday present and Christmas present because I'm still his kid.
Her fiancé seems like an okay guy, but something that creeps me out is that he's seen photos of me and said, "oh, my god, she's SUCH a beauty" I don't know, but that gives me the creeps. I admit, I'm pretty good looking: 5 foot 5, nice teeth, nose piercing, beautiful hair and eyes, the whole package, but a comment like that from a 35 year old man just creeps me out. I thought about meeting him, but I never wanted to because I never felt comfortable enough to see him in person due to the vibe I get from him just from the photos of him my mom's sent me.
She sent me a photo of the ring and it looks fake, not gonna lie. My dad commented that it looked like a ring he got her years ago, but isn't the exact ring. My stepmom said it looked like it was from a pawn shop.
I was talking to my paternal grandma Saturday afternoon and we were talking about how if my mom marries this guy, her true colors are going to come out if they haven't already and literally a few hours later, I get informed that my mom's engaged, so I texted my grandma and said, "so this happened, what a coincidence, am I right?" We started talking about it a little bit and I half jokingly half seriously said that for a wedding present, I'd gift her a book on cheating and abandoning children and my grandma said "you are definitely my granddaughter," then she said, "I'll bring the black paint to decorate her heart." We laughed about it a little bit and my best friend called me to check on me since she was with me when I got the message and she asked if I was going to tell my mom how I felt about this, and I said, "No, I'm not gonna mess with this. They're adults, and they can do what they want. I have to be the bigger person and let nature run its course. Does it suck? Yes, but what can I do about it?"
I'm not happy because after the pain she's caused to a lot of people, I feel like she doesn't deserve to have this happiness. If anything, I'm worried for her fiancé's daughter because she's only 9 years old, and if my mom shows her true colors, his daughter is going to get hurt and probably never come back from it. I thought about getting his number and telling him all my mom's done, but I didn't do it because he's a grown ass man, he can do what he wants and date/marry who he wants, and if he finds out the hard way, I guess he finds out the hard way. I told my dad this and he told me I should let her fiancé figure it out himself and let him come up with what to do regarding his daughter's safety.
2023.05.31 06:41 Outrageous-River3744 My mom is engaged and I'm not happy for her
My (17/F) bio mom (47/F) has informed me that her and her now fiancé (35/M) are engaged as of Saturday night, and I'm not happy for her.
My mom cheated on my dad with multiple men and she was very narcissistic and me and my dad were her victims. My dad stayed married to her because he didn't trust her to raise me if they divorced while I was young so he stayed married to her unhappily for 9 more years because he didn't want to lose me because of her. In February of 2021, she couldn't choose other men over her marriage and me so she left and abandoned me. She would still text me, but it'd be very short and dry because I didn't know what to say. I don't know why, but the part of me that wanted validation from my mother tried everything to get her approval. She made a Tinder account for me and sent photos of me to different men because she said I needed to "get back out there and get over my ex." After some heated going back and forth, she deleted the account. I stopped going to her house in July of 2021 because I was just done with her and I've been living with my dad full time ever since then the divorce was final.
She started dating her now fiancé in February of 2022 and took on the stepmother role of his 9 year old daughter, which hurts me because she's loving and nurturing to her, but she never was loving and nurturing to me. In the time I haven't seen her, it's either heated arguments over text about the fact that she's not a changed person and I don't need/deserve her negativity because she's jealous that I want to live with my dad and stepmom. She doesn't send me birthday gifts, Christmas gifts, nothing. My dad hates this because he told me that if the roles were reversed and I wanted nothing to do with him, he'd send me a birthday present and Christmas present because I'm still his kid.
Her fiancé seems like an okay guy, but something that creeps me out is that he's seen photos of me and said, "oh, my god, she's SUCH a beauty" I don't know, but that gives me the creeps. I admit, I'm pretty good looking: 5 foot 5, nice teeth, nose piercing, beautiful hair and eyes, the whole package, but a comment like that from a 35 year old man just creeps me out. I thought about meeting him, but I never wanted to because I never felt comfortable enough to see him in person due to the vibe I get from him just from the photos of him my mom's sent me.
She sent me a photo of the ring and it looks fake, not gonna lie. My dad commented that it looked like a ring he got her years ago, but isn't the exact ring. My stepmom said it looked like it was from a pawn shop.
I was talking to my paternal grandma Saturday afternoon and we were talking about how if my mom marries this guy, her true colors are going to come out if they haven't already and literally a few hours later, I get informed that my mom's engaged, so I texted my grandma and said, "so this happened, what a coincidence, am I right?" We started talking about it a little bit and I half jokingly half seriously said that for a wedding present, I'd gift her a book on cheating and abandoning children and my grandma said "you are definitely my granddaughter," then she said, "I'll bring the black paint to decorate her heart." We laughed about it a little bit and my best friend called me to check on me since she was with me when I got the message and she asked if I was going to tell my mom how I felt about this, and I said, "No, I'm not gonna mess with this. They're adults, and they can do what they want. I have to be the bigger person and let nature run its course. Does it suck? Yes, but what can I do about it?"
I'm not happy because after the pain she's caused to a lot of people, I feel like she doesn't deserve to have this happiness. If anything, I'm worried for her fiancé's daughter because she's only 9 years old, and if my mom shows her true colors, his daughter is going to get hurt and probably never come back from it. I thought about getting his number and telling him all my mom's done, but I didn't do it because he's a grown ass man, he can do what he wants and date/marry who he wants, and if he finds out the hard way, I guess he finds out the hard way. I told my dad this and he told me I should let her fiancé figure it out himself and let him come up with what to do regarding his daughter's safety.
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My mom cheated on my dad with multiple men and she was very narcissistic and me and my dad were her victims. My dad stayed married to her because he didn't trust her to raise me if they divorced while I was young so he stayed married to her unhappily for 9 more years because he didn't want to lose me because of her. In February of 2021, she couldn't choose other men over her marriage and me so she left and abandoned me. She would still text me, but it'd be very short and dry because I didn't know what to say. I don't know why, but the part of me that wanted validation from my mother tried everything to get her approval. She made a Tinder account for me and sent photos of me to different men because she said I needed to "get back out there and get over my ex." After some heated going back and forth, she deleted the account. I stopped going to her house in July of 2021 because I was just done with her and I've been living with my dad full time ever since then the divorce was final.
She started dating her now fiancé in February of 2022 and took on the stepmother role of his 9 year old daughter, which hurts me because she's loving and nurturing to her, but she never was loving and nurturing to me. In the time I haven't seen her, it's either heated arguments over text about the fact that she's not a changed person and I don't need/deserve her negativity because she's jealous that I want to live with my dad and stepmom. She doesn't send me birthday gifts, Christmas gifts, nothing. My dad hates this because he told me that if the roles were reversed and I wanted nothing to do with him, he'd send me a birthday present and Christmas present because I'm still his kid.
Her fiancé seems like an okay guy, but something that creeps me out is that he's seen photos of me and said, "oh, my god, she's SUCH a beauty" I don't know, but that gives me the creeps. I admit, I'm pretty good looking: 5 foot 5, nice teeth, nose piercing, beautiful hair and eyes, the whole package, but a comment like that from a 35 year old man just creeps me out. I thought about meeting him, but I never wanted to because I never felt comfortable enough to see him in person due to the vibe I get from him just from the photos of him my mom's sent me.
She sent me a photo of the ring and it looks fake, not gonna lie. My dad commented that it looked like a ring he got her years ago, but isn't the exact ring. My stepmom said it looked like it was from a pawn shop.
I was talking to my paternal grandma Saturday afternoon and we were talking about how if my mom marries this guy, her true colors are going to come out if they haven't already and literally a few hours later, I get informed that my mom's engaged, so I texted my grandma and said, "so this happened, what a coincidence, am I right?" We started talking about it a little bit and I half jokingly half seriously said that for a wedding present, I'd gift her a book on cheating and abandoning children and my grandma said "you are definitely my granddaughter," then she said, "I'll bring the black paint to decorate her heart." We laughed about it a little bit and my best friend called me to check on me since she was with me when I got the message and she asked if I was going to tell my mom how I felt about this, and I said, "No, I'm not gonna mess with this. They're adults, and they can do what they want. I have to be the bigger person and let nature run its course. Does it suck? Yes, but what can I do about it?"
I'm not happy because after the pain she's caused to a lot of people, I feel like she doesn't deserve to have this happiness. If anything, I'm worried for her fiancé's daughter because she's only 9 years old, and if my mom shows her true colors, his daughter is going to get hurt and probably never come back from it. I thought about getting his number and telling him all my mom's done, but I didn't do it because he's a grown ass man, he can do what he wants and date/marry who he wants, and if he finds out the hard way, I guess he finds out the hard way. I told my dad this and he told me I should let her fiancé figure it out himself and let him come up with what to do regarding his daughter's safety.
2023.05.31 05:17 untilyouswingthebat My dad beat my brother and sister but tried to be a "dad" to me around my stepmother when he remarried
He was so abusive to my brother and sister and cheated on my mom, but was kind towards me once he married my stepmother. When my brother and sister turned 18 he just stopped trying with them especially when they would openly show their anger towards our dad, he just cut them off. Then last year I asked him to reach out to them, it had been 20 years and I felt like he should apologize and try to work on a relationship with us three, he lost his wife (my stepmom) and his mother, what more was there to lose?
Instead he told me that it was their fault, and then he wrote me letters to send to them with backwards apologies about how that's just how he disciplined back in the day etc. Now I don't even know if he's alive or dead. I never got my father figure. He's missed out on every milestone of ours. My heart is completely broken.
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Instead he told me that it was their fault, and then he wrote me letters to send to them with backwards apologies about how that's just how he disciplined back in the day etc. Now I don't even know if he's alive or dead. I never got my father figure. He's missed out on every milestone of ours. My heart is completely broken.
2023.05.31 05:15 Character_Wheel_7914 Being transgender is hard.
Hi! I am ftm (16). This is going to be somewhat of a vent post so.. I figured out I was trans mid 2021. I’ve been openly trans at school since and told my parents last year. Since my parents were mostly supportive, I thought that the only hard thing about being trans was the transphobic people I’d meet. I was wrong. The pain I feel when someone I’ve just met misgenders me because it means that I’m not passing enough, having to look at all my feminine features in the mirror, men’s clothes not fitting me well because I’m curvy. That’s not all, I am the only gay kid in my family. I know I’m not what my parents wanted me to be, I thought I was ok with that. However, realizing that everything I do just disappoints them hurts. I know my stepmom just thinks I’m a “confused girl”. I recently found out a guy who was into me isn’t gay and just likes masculine girls. When I told a guy this he told me it was normal because he liked my “female parts”. I feel like I can’t date girls because no one will see me as an actual boy, I feel like I can’t date gay guys because they won’t see me as an actual boy. I feel so trapped. Why can’t I just be a boy and not have to worry about all that? Being trans is so hard sometimes I just want to detransition to make everyone around me happier.
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