(TL;DR AT BOTTOM) Background: I liked F (my crush) since the sixth grade, but it faded for a bit. I was a bit of a social outcast at my school prior to Freshman year as well, but I had a lot of friends. Cue freshman year. Freshman year was pretty awesome for me to be honest. At this point, I had become extremely close with another guy who we can call Chris. Me and Chris would often hang out on zooms together, do assignments together with some of our other friends and so on. F and Chris were both in my science class. I didn't really have feelings for F, but I knew something was there. I slightly admired her, but that was the last thing on my mind at the time. Chris and I usually sat together in science class, but just before the quarantines and COVID, I was away from school for a week. I know that during that period, F had a light crush on Chris and she and him became friends. As soon as I would have gone back, quarantines were slammed atop out heads.
As me, Chris, and my other friends enjoyed the extra screen time together, things were about to take a turn. See, after eighth grade, tutor groups don't exist anymore. This means you're assigned a class by sets in a subject. Ex. Set 1 Math is the most capable at math and Set 4 Math is the least capable at math. This meant that the only time Chris and I were in the same class was for two lessons, one of those being Science with F. One science lesson, the teacher accidentally left the google meet running as he left, which gave us an open space to sit around. The entire class was in the meet, but they all slowly started leaving. All that remained was me, Chris, F (who had a crush on Chris), and two other girls. Me and Chris were originally the only ones talking, but everyone started to join in. At that moment, I knew there was something about F that meant something to me. But I didn't understand what. Over time, the five of us became really good friends and we all played Minecraft together. That would be my demise, as I quickly became attracted to F again. It was instant, I didn't stand a chance. We didn't talk much alone, but when we did, I found myself freezing up, scared to talk. I only really felt slightly confident talking to her in private chat rather than in a call. Even then, I was horrendous at talking to girls, so I failed miserably most times. This cycle continued, and eventually our group changed slightly. The only original members were me, F and Chris. Along came F's friend (call her Flora) and Chris' friend (call him Henry). I had become comfortable around these four and it seemed like things were going my way. I was talking to Henry on our group chat late at night about my loneliness and how it felt really nice to have people that actually cared about me as a result of the garbage that happened before and F read all of it. In the morning she told me she read it and I felt jumpy, but I was kind of glad that she knew. It was comforting in a way. Eventually, this led to us going on a zoom call at around 3 in the morning and talking to each other. She confided in me and vented to me about something personal to her that was hurting her and, as much as I tried to console her, I could tell she just wanted to vent. When we left the call, she texted me that she loved me and told me goodnight. I don't think I had been happier until that point. I left her a short, and sweet message about how much she meant to me and I told her I loved her too.
Since then, we'd become really close. I assume I still had a piece of my naive self in my soul, but basically she sort of nudged me to take her to prom, but I didn't read it correctly. Obviously, all of this made Chris pretty pissed and jealous, and it was easy to tell. This is where things sort of just start going down.
Chris began to steer the four of them away from me slowly. He invited them to other group chats and video calls. He'd send the link openly on the group chats, but he knew I would never join since these people had that same shitty perception of me from before and they would probably treat me like fucking shit. I ghosted after that, and I kept to myself. I became miserable. Everything was gone as soon as I had it. But F was still there. I remember she called my name as soon as I joined a voice channel with her and she tried to make me feel seen but I didn't see that myself. I chose to leave. I regret it, but it was the healthier choice. I went back to my old friends, the ones that I had neglected for so long, and I was happy again. My crush, though, didn't waiver. She stayed in my head. We lost touch, but even then, her voice and her smile played back and forth in my brain. Needless to say, sophomore year was the worst year of my life.
The day before the first day of sophomore year, me and F reconnected. We shared music choices, she introduced me to new music that I adore to this day and we talked about things we liked. On the first day of school, she waved at me when she saw me. I looked at her, but, I didn't wave back. I acted as if the crowd was too rowdy to leave school and I just kept walking. I regret that, to this day. She quickly became a distant memory to me as our lives turned away. She started to spite me. Chris eventually stopped feeling resentment, and started feeling too cool to invite me to any plans he had going on. He treated me like a dog who he loved in private but didn't bring outside. This time, life made me hate everything. I hated school, my grades were terrible, I was in a state of wreckage and I was highly destructive to myself. Near the end of the year, though, things were looking better. I was happy. I was talking to Henry, Flora, and even F at times. Chris was still a part of our group, but I knew the first chance I got, I was veering far away from that fake fucker.
I visited my home over the summer. I remembered who I was, who I used to be. When I came back, I felt reimagined and reconnected with myself. I took care of myself, but I was still lonely. I felt alone, and I don't know if I was lovesick, but I thought a girlfriend would just solve every problem I had. That's when I met another girl, 'Kera'.
Kera was a senior, and I was a junior. We texted for a while, and eventually, I asked her out on a date. She said yes. Before I met Kera, I still had feelings for F, but now those feelings were starting to give way. I still talked to Henry, Flora and F on our group chat, but I started refocusing my attention on Kera when she came into my life. Needless to say, my first girlfriend was a piece of shit. But I was hopelessly infatuated with her. She had attachment issues, but I loved the attention so I became dependent on her for my own self-love. Eventually, she began to turn abusive towards me. I won't say what happened since I've already come to terms with it but it left me burnt out. I still wouldn't let her go. Three months after we began dating, me, Kera, F and some of our other friends were walking when someone slipped up. Kera cheated on me. At that point, I froze up, but I tried acting cool. I couldn't look at her the same even when she held me. I left her completely and I fucking lost it. I was a wreck for months.
F saw I was fucked up, and she messaged me. She said she'd always be there for me, and that if I needed to talk, she'd be there. I told her I'd talk to her later, but I was caught right back into my own mess when Kera messaged me. It took time, but I was finally over her. I was set free from her. One day, me, Chris and F were discussing things when the question came up. 'What happened with Kera?'. I told them everything, and F understood. She was comforting and gentle and helped me explain to Chris why the things she did weren't justified because he hadn't been in a relationship before. I was too broken to have a crush on anyone then, but I appreciated her kindness. Me, F and Henry became very close friends over the summer, as we revised for our finals together, played games and laughed off into the night.
Fast forward to senior year. So far, senior year has been the greatest year of my life, and writing this, I think I finally understand how severe my issues were as a young teen. During junior year, some new kids joined and I became very very close friends with them. To this day, they have been the best friends I have ever made, simply because they treat me like a human being. They invite me to things, they tease me, they laugh with me, everything I have ever wanted. It had made me realize that my loneliness wasn't about girls, it was about friends in general. Anyways, about F. F and I had a severe case of drift after the start of senior year. For three months, Henry, F and I stuck together closely, but life came in the way. Henry and I became extremely close, but we were drifting. My crush on F at this point was dead, and we still talked to one another at times. After a few months, I was talking to some friends when F and one of her class friends was behind us sitting on a table. I heard her friend say "What about him?" and I saw him quickly point at me in the corner of my eye. She replied, "He's attractive now, but... I feel like he would be really boring." After a minute or two of extra eavesdropping (I know it's wrong, I'm sorry) I knew for sure they were talking about dating. At that point, I didn't really know what to think, but after taking some time out of my day to think about it, I understood I should let her go. But I understood where she was coming from. I was closed off, and very scared to talk to her. I could barely talk to girls when I first met her, and I knew our 1 on 1 talks were boring as fuck, because I was the one who sat quiet and did nothing during them. Maybe I'm justifying her actions, but I feel like she's kind of right about that one. I didn't really give her a reason to think I'm fun to be honest.
I stopped thinking about her, I stopped trying to think about ways we could talk to one another, I tried everything. For a while, it worked. I realized me and Henry were drifting, however, and I shot him a message. I asked him how things were and we talked into the night as he vented to me about his personal problems and I consoled him and told him what I thought he needed to hear from me at that point in time. He was genuinely thankful and he told me to come sit with him at lunch time tomorrow to talk.
I talked to him and eventually, we talked about F. I noticed she'd been kind of down lately and that's when he told me what happened. Chris' friend (call him Adam) had a birthday party. Adam was one of the guys that sort of resented me, and though we were on good terms, I didn't really like him too much. Adam was very close with Henry too. F and Adam made out at the party since Adam broke up with his ex a while ago and felt lost. When I heard that, I, too, became lost. Ever since then, F and I have just drifted further and further apart. Every time I feel like my feelings for her are gone, they come back way stronger than before. I dream about her, usually we are in the hallway and she walks in front of me and I stand defeated in her presence. TL;DR - I'm a stupid kid who's liked a girl for ~4 years and I don't know what to do. So, I have been thinking, I want to tell her how I have felt. Her boyfriend and her plan to break up after our graduation, so I was thinking of sending her some voice notes then about my feelings and how I could never talk to her straight when I saw her, but I don't know if I should. I need to let these feelings out so that I never regret not being able to be open with her. If you agree with me, what should I even say? What would you want to hear, if you were her? Please let me know. If you have any other ideas for me, let me know them too. I just want to get this massive weight off of my chest. Thank you for reading this massive post. Much appreciated.

In the fic Naruto lands on the typical team 7 has some knowledge of fuinjutsu which he uses mostly in the form of his cards. There doesn’t seem to be any bashing in the fic at least not with team 7. The get along pretty well. There first major mission involves them getting kidnapped and brought to kiri in the middle of the civil war by Yagura’s forces but they get away and side with the rebels.
Sakura learned some medical ninjutsu. Kakashi helps Sasuke awaken his sharingan and Naruto tells team 7 about his sealing situation. He knew about it since reading books on fuinjutsu.
I originally found the fox on YouTube but they didn’t credit the actual author or provide a link to the source.

Please, good people, I need help because I have no idea how to do it, and I need it for my Haskell studies. Haskell is not my strong suit, but I have to do it for a credit. Here is the information I received:
Construct a program in the Haskell language that will solve arbitrary decision graphs. It should allow the input of a set of predicates and a goal, draw the decision graph step by step, and generate a summary of the solution based on it.
It is known that Ewa is the parent of Ania, and Piotr is the parent of Ewa.
a) Define the parent/2 relation and then, using this definition, define the ancesto2 relation.
b) Draw the solution search tree for the goal: Who is Ania's ancestor?
It is known that Jan was born in 1974, Ludwik in 1976, Maciej in 1960, and Grzegorz in 1975.
a) Define the born/2 predicate and then, using this definition, define the olde2 predicate.
b) Draw the solution search tree for the goals: Is Jan older than Maciej? Who is older than Jan? Who is Jan older than?

Hello folks, thinking out loud here.
This is not a product yet. Just need feedback to understand the pain points.
I'm exploring an idea about building a tool that helps you target individual products on an ad campaign.
The core idea is that you import your listings into the tool and with the press of a button it does the following:

1. Create a landing page for your product
2. Optimize the page to be (super) fast
3. Add required SEO tags
4. Use the new landing page to create an ad campaign based on your product
   1. It generates the ad copy and keywords using AI
   2. You can customize and review them before running the campaign
   3. You can also provide general brand-specific guidelines to generate the keywords and copy

Value:

• Because it's a single landing page promoting a single product, it loads faster than loading the whole website.
• It scales well as the demand increases.
• It has more focused ad targeting and each product variant can be targeted differently.

FAQs:

• Will there be a checkout?
  • The tool could either integrate a checkout process directly on the landing page or direct customers to your main store to complete their purchases.
• What about upselling?
  • This page can have links to other products in your main store.
• Do you need technical knowledge to use it?
  • The way I envision it, you don't even need knowledge of how to run ads. It handles it all with a single push of a button. Now obviously you can customize it all.
• Will all this be part of the product in version 1?
  • No. Like with any other product, I think it will start with a simple MVP that will develop over time. The MVP could include the core idea as a whole with some limitations.

My questions for you:

• Does this solve a real problem?
• Is there something that would improve this idea?
• Is something here you think won't work? Or maybe the whole idea is not worth working on?

I would love to hear your thoughts, concerns, or any comments in general.

I know this is a long post, but I really need help :(
I've been in my current relationship for a year, and I've spent half of it suffering from RJ. I am my girlfriend's first girlfriend and her first lesbian experience overall. She used to date only men and used to consider herself as bisexual. After being with me, she told me she discovered that she is actually a lesbian. I've never had problems with bisexual women, most of my partners have been bi. however, the fact that she was with her ex-boyfriend for more than two years has been haunting me. When I asked her why did she stay for that long in that relationship even though she knew she wanted to be with women, she told me that she did it because of how lonely she felt at that point in her life. She explained to me that she had never enjoyed sex before me, that she wasn't even in love with him and that she actually didn't enjoy being with him, which made me feel very secure. These are things that any person suffering from RJ would LOVE to hear. However, everything started spiraling when I decided to stalk her on Facebook and Twitter and found posts where she would tag him calling him "the love of her life", saying how much she loved him and how she loved spending time with him. All of this made me think that she is lying to me about her real feeling towards him and towards me. When I confronted her, she insisted that she has never lied to me, and that these posts were just things that she said to him just because of how afraid she was of being alone, and that he always made her feel guilty of everything, so she tried to solve things by telling him these type of things. I know she is in love with me, she really is the perfect girlfriend. I've talked about this with her a hundred times, and she is always supportive and gentle, and reassures me that she would never lie to me and that she really means it when she says she didn't love him. Even people around her have told me about how awful her relationship with him was, however I am not able to stop stalking him and looking for these posts that I know will only feed my obsession and make me feel worse. Every time she says or does nice things for me, I can only ask myself if she has done or said it to him too. I've already gone to therapy and tried meditation, and nothing works. I'm at a point where I don't want to get out of bed because I feel that my whole relationship is a lie, even though I know there's no actual proof of it other than Facebook memes from two years ago. Am I in the wrong for thinking these type of things? Or is it possible that she is lying to me? I would really appreciate it if someone could give me a tip or help me in some way, because I don't want to keep living like this :(

I want to create a "Closed date" field for Tasks. If I use a formula to set the date to now() when a "Done" checkbox is checked, the fact that that now() is dynamically calculated, the date will change. Is there a way to look in this date one time?

Hi! My YouTube Shorts usually used to get a couple of thousand views and a few subscribers from each short. But recently (ie. Last 2 weeks) I've been posting the same type of Shorts and they only get under a hundred views. It's weird because they are not being shown in people's feed (impressions are around 100) so I don't think it's because the content is bad bevause it is not even having a chance.
What could be the reason behind this, please? Any ideas how to solve it? Thanks ☺️

Ever since LO turned 3 months old, he’s been a complete wildcard especially at feedings. He used to take 3.5-4 oz at each feed consistently. Now, there are days he will eat in the morning, or won’t feed at all until the afternoon. Other days he’ll latch to my breast, and other days he won’t. One day he’ll take 24 oz in day, the next day only 10 oz.
The only consistent thing is that he’ll eat for his bedtime, dream feed, and MOTN feeds. He’s plateauing on the weight curve and my pediatrician is saying he needs to up his calories so it’s making me nervous. Feeding overall has gotten so stressful because I don’t know if I’m going to have a happy baby that wants to eat, or a screaming demon who is refusing. My pediatrician says it’s teething, but the wild fluctuations on a day to day basis is really throwing me off.
If it helps, I’m combo feeding breast and bottle (pumped milk and formula). He also had a tongue and lip tie release at 8 weeks. He also used to sleep great but now getting up every 3-4 hours.
Anyone else go through this? I’m trying to figure out if this is a typical distracted 3.5 month old or something else?

Hi,
I've been testing Neuracache and really think it's a great, very well thought-out app!
There's one issue, which might be due to user error, but this is what I'm seeing when importing Markdown documents from a watched iCloud folder:
If I choose "When no cards" under Import Full Pages, then I can import full pages and the markdown documents' titles are used as questions. Great!
However, I also want to categorize the documents into decks and only want to import documents with certain tags. And this is where things aren't working for me.
Firstly, if I add a tag into one of the documents it does not show under the Decks tab. However, I can open the card and the tag is visible there in the text.
Secondly, if I change the setting for importing full pages to "When no cards, and includes #tags tag", then the deck is created correctly but the title is no longer used as question. Btw, the setting for this was enabled during all of my testing.
I think there may be a bug, but if someone has input that allows me to solve this that would be really appreciated.
Again, I'm pretty much sold on the app incl. the Premium plan! Have been looking for something like this for a while, which works seemlessly with my existing notetaking applications via a watched folder :)

Hello MTG players and mathematicians of the sub!
Is there any formula that calculates the optimal (or minimum) terrain portion on a deck? Does it consider the individual mana cost of the cards and its respective frequencie?
I new into the game and know some tumb rules to terrain proportion on deck making, like the 1/3 rule, but I haven't found any mathematical formula that gives support to the question...
And if there is none, I would like to know some suggestions on how to create one using the detailed mana cost curve and frequencies of cards...

Hello folks, thinking out loud here.
This is not a product yet. Just need feedback to understand the pain points.
I'm exploring an idea about building a tool that helps you target individual products on an ad campaign.
The core idea is that you import your listings into the tool and with the press of a button it does the following:

1. Create a landing page for your product
2. Optimize the page to be (super) fast
3. Add required SEO tags
4. Use the new landing page to create an ad campaign based on your product
   1. It generates the ad copy and keywords using AI
   2. You can customize and review them before running the campaign
   3. You can also provide general brand-specific guidelines to generate the keywords and copy

Value:

• Because it's a single landing page promoting a single product, it loads faster than loading the whole website.
• It scales well as the demand increases.
• It has more focused ad targeting and each product variant can be targeted differently.

FAQs:

• Will there be a checkout?
  • The tool could either integrate a checkout process directly on the landing page or direct customers to your main store to complete their purchases.
• What about upselling?
  • This page can have links to other products in your main store.
• Do you need technical knowledge to use it?
  • The way I envision it, you don't even need knowledge of how to run ads. It handles it all with a single push of a button. Now obviously you can customize it all.
• Will all this be part of the product in version 1?
  • No. Like with any other product, I think it will start with a simple MVP that will develop over time. The MVP could include the core idea as a whole with some limitations.

My questions for you:

• Does this solve a real problem?
• Is there something that would improve this idea?
• Is something here you think won't work? Or maybe the whole idea is not worth working on?

I would love to hear your thoughts, concerns, or any comments in general.

The first thing the baby did wrong was to tear pages out of her books. So we made a rule that each time she tore a page out of a book she had to stay alone in her room for four hours, behind the closed door. She was tearing out about a page a day, in the beginning, and the rule worked fairly well, although the crying and screaming from behind the closed door were unnerving. We reasoned that that was the price you had to pay, or part of the price you had to pay. But then as her grip improved she got to tearing out two pages at a time, which meant eight hours alone in her room, behind the closed door, which just doubled the annoyance for everybody. But she wouldn't quit doing it. And then as time went on we began getting days when she tore out three or four pages, which put her alone in her room for as much as sixteen hours at a stretch, interfering with normal feeding and worrying my wife. But I felt that if you made a rule you had to stick to it, had to be consistent, otherwise they get the wrong idea. She was about fourteen months old or fifteen months old at that point. Often, of course, she'd go to sleep, after an hour or so of yelling, that was a mercy. Her room was very nice, with a nice wooden rocking horse and practically a hundred dolls and stuffed animals. Lots of things to do in that room if you used your time wisely, puzzles and things. Unfortunately sometimes when we opened the door we'd find that she'd torn more pages out of more books while she was inside, and these pages had to be added to the total, in fairness.
The baby's name was Born Dancin'. We gave the baby some of our wine, red, whites and blue, and spoke seriously to her. But it didn't do any good.
I must say she got real clever. You'd come up to her where she was playing on the floor, in those rare times when she was out of her room, and there'd be a book there, open beside her, and you'd inspect it and it would look perfectly all right. And then you'd look closely and you'd find a page that had one little corner torn, could easily pass for ordinary wear-and-tear but I knew what she'd done, she'd torn off this little corner and swallowed it. So that had to count and it did. They will go to any lengths to thwart you. My wife said that maybe we were being too rigid and that the baby was losing weight. But I pointed out to her that the baby had a long life to live and had to live in a world with others, had to live in a world where there were many, many rules, and if you couldn't learn to play by the rules you were going to be left out in the cold with no character, shunned and ostracized by everyone. The longest we ever kept her in her room consecutive was eighty-eight hours, and that ended when my wife took the door off its hinges with a crowbar even though the baby still owed us twelve hours because she was working off twenty five pages. I put the door back on its hinges and added a big lock, one that opened only if you put a magnetic card in a slot, and I kept the card.
But things didn't improve. The baby would come out of her room like a bat out of hell and rush to the nearest book, Goodnight Moon or whatever, and begin tearing pages out of it hand over fist. I mean there'd be thirty-four pages of Goodnight Moon on the floor in ten seconds. Plus the covers. I began to get a little worried. When I added up her indebtedness, in terms of hours, I could see that she wasn't going to get out of her room until 1992, if then. Also, she was looking pretty wan. She hadn't been to the park in weeks. We had more or less of an ethical crisis on our hands.
I solved it by declaring that it was all right to tear pages out of books, and moreover, that it was all right to have torn pages out of books in the past. That is one of the satisfying things about being a parent-you've got a lot of moves, each one good as gold. The baby and I sit happily on the floor, side by side, tearing pages out of books, and sometimes, just for fun, we go out on the street and smash a windshield together.

In the old days, dads met the boyfriend and asked "What is your intention with my daughter?", possibly with a shotgun by his side.. 🤣🤣
Ok, this isn't the 1950's anymore lol, but the issue of intent is no less critical.
We post ads, engage. And the failures are shared for all of us to learn and understand. Many of these problems could be solved with...communication, but we're either all talked out from our marriages or we've been too cowardly to talk in our marriages and we fasho ain't doing it here either 🤣🤣🤣
Well, for me, I don't talk much. I am wordy, but I will dance like Fred Astaire around a tuff issue. So I look for tools, words, to help me navigate this minefield of pervs and scammers (and I'm not talking about OF girls, my guy).
I'm talking about the ones who broker trust to turn it into a soft coercion for nudes on demand and feel cam girl services, fuck and such and a peace sign on the way out the door.
Selfish behavior that leaves you feeling conflicted because you thought they'd be a normal man, with thoughts and life stories and interests and opinions, who did gaf about you, but now you feel and you feel icky and used.
I thought the word was INTEREST. If they're interested, they will follow with effort, etc. Basic, but true. But the hard hitting word might actually be INTENT.
What is your intention for me and this relationship?
The reply "friendship and connection" might still be a lie.
The offenders prob aren't reading this sub. The borderline ones might be. So for those, let me beg you to see my humanity:

 Luring a vulnerable lonely wife to feel like she can trust you and that you care about her, only to use soft coercion to elicit nudes and videos with no INTENTION of doing anything more than receiving is a shit move. Women feel conflicted because you thought they'd be a normal man, with thoughts and life stories and interests and opinions, who did gaf, and you feel icky and used. Prostituted without knowledge or consent. Its mentally and emotionally damaging. And if you're so messed up from not being touched in a DB, checking the projection of pent up sexual frustration at the door. We want to be desired too. But WE, as INDIVIDUALS, as the woman you value, want to be desired. Not as a means to an end, a body, not "oh thank God I can be sexual again!". For more examples, check my profile for gems such as: Fighting to get men to see my humanity The path to the pussy is paved with lies Probably others... 

Hello folks, thinking out loud here.
This is not a product yet. Just need feedback to understand the pain points.
I'm exploring an idea about building a tool that helps you target individual products on an ad campaign.
The core idea is that you import your listings into the tool and with the press of a button it does the following:

1. Create a landing page for your product
2. Optimize the page to be (super) fast
3. Add required SEO tags
4. Use the new landing page to create an ad campaign based on your product
   1. It generates the ad copy and keywords using AI
   2. You can customize and review them before running the campaign
   3. You can also provide general brand-specific guidelines to generate the keywords and copy

Value:

• Because it's a single landing page promoting a single product, it loads faster than loading the whole website.
• It scales well as the demand increases.
• It has more focused ad targeting and each product variant can be targeted differently.

FAQs:

• Will there be a checkout?
  • The tool could either integrate a checkout process directly on the landing page or direct customers to your main store to complete their purchases.
• What about upselling?
  • This page can have links to other products in your main store.
• Do you need technical knowledge to use it?
  • The way I envision it, you don't even need knowledge of how to run ads. It handles it all with a single push of a button. Now obviously you can customize it all.
• Will all this be part of the product in version 1?
  • No. Like with any other product, I think it will start with a simple MVP that will develop over time. The MVP could include the core idea as a whole with some limitations.

My questions for you:

• Does this solve a real problem?
• Is there something that would improve this idea?
• Is something here you think won't work? Or maybe the whole idea is not worth working on?

I would love to hear your thoughts, concerns, or any comments in general.