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2023.05.31 18:18 Aiming4Gaming0 40 ADVANCED Tips in V Rising 2023 V Rising Guide (Gloomrot update!)

40 ADVANCED Tips in V Rising 2023 V Rising Guide (Gloomrot update!)
V Rising features many mechanics that, once mastered, can greatly enhance your gaming experience.
So, today, I have prepared a list of 40 advanced tips to help you understand and utilize these mechanics efficiently.
This is Aming4Gaming, and today we're aiming for advanced gaming!


This guide originated from my YouTube video, where I show all resource locations in action. If you enjoy watching videos, I would be really grateful if you checked it out and rated it - it would help me a lot!
However, it's also fair to offer something to Reddit, which is why I decided to make a text version of my guide here as well. So, if you prefer text guides, it's right below!
All tips are grouped by their purpose for easy navigation.

Are these tips accurate enough?

To put it simply - I wrote down all the things I came up with, then spent 4 hours checking them one by one to confirm that they are working. I hope this is enough to confirm my confidence on the subject :)

Farming techniques
  1. Farm Pristine hides easily in Gracefall Village by weakening villagers during the daytime, waiting for nightfall, and eliminating them in their werewolf form for free loot.
  2. Utilize bosses and big enemies to gather resources as they can effortlessly destroy rocks and trees.
  3. Use Bear form to break big resource deposits without the need for explosives.
  4. The Haunted Iron Mine has become obsolete with the newly added Iron Cave. Gain access to it using explosives or by transforming into a bear.
  5. Golems in the Iron Cave won't attack you when you're in bear form.
  6. Employ area of effect skills to farm cotton or sunflowers more efficiently.
  7. You can mine iron with any Merciless Copper weapon, an upgraded version of regular copper weapons. Maces provide an extra 25% damage to rocks and veins.
  8. Change your blood type to Worker for more efficient resource mining. It increases damage to nodes, resource yield, and even offers a chance to instantly destroy nodes.

  1. Take advantage of enemy encounters where they fight each other, providing an advantageous handicap in boss battles. This strategy works particularly well in Haunted Iron Mines and Gloomrot.
  2. Be mindful of your WASD inputs while mounting your horse to prevent accidental backward movement.
  3. When fighting bosses in a group, the number of spawned enemies and spells in boss fights increases, along with their overall power.
  4. Relic weapons offer significant stat boosts and effects such as chill or shock on skill usage.
  5. Make use of the blood moon, which boosts your blood quality and movement speed, making boss battles easier.
  6. For quick and free HP restoration, enter your coffin and wait a few seconds.
  7. Check your server settings to confirm the difficulty level. Some servers increase boss stats to create a more challenging and souls-like experience.
  8. Skeletons serve as powerful distractions in fights, absorbing attacks while you shoot enemies from a distance.
  9. Use your blood drain power to swiftly eliminate enemies without waiting for the drain to complete.
  10. Bear form boasts superior health regeneration values, allowing you to save your items or blood.

  1. Visit newly added traders to obtain items, potions, books, and much more.
  2. If you're missing gems or materials for upgrade, purchase them from traders.
  3. Acquire specific floors from traders instead of relying on random drops.
  4. Or you can maximize your profit from unlocking new items with scrolls or paper by purchasing cheap books.
  5. Unlock human form by defeating Bane the Shadowblade, enabling you to visit cities and new traders without being attacked.

Bag system
  1. Bags are essential for expanding your storage system, allowing you to store multiple resources without taking up inventory space.
  2. Coin purses protect you from the negative effects of silver and can hold multiple stacks of coins.
  3. Equip multiple bags of the same type for added storage convenience.

  1. You can occupy other players territories even in PvE. Just find a decaying castle and seize it.
  2. When mounted, you can turn your blood sense on to simplify the search for victims.
  3. Summon the putrid rat in the Vermin Nest within your base to unlock rat form. Use rat form to open golden chests without detection, but be quick as the opening animation cancels the form.
  4. Protect yourself from garlic by drinking garlic resistance brew or potion, simplifying your farming by reducing garlic stacks in the same time period.
  5. The same tactic works for silver resistance potions, allowing you to carry more silver.
  6. Other players' bases can sometimes be accessed by jumping from higher ground.
  7. Wisps give you temporary protection against Cursed Forest sickness. Alternatively, defeat The Wanderer and craft the Shroud of the Forest for full protection.

Base building & Crafting
  1. Grow plants within your base's dedicated planting area to acquire all the resources you need without visiting other locations.
  2. Utilize the new teleporters to swiftly move between different areas within your claimed zone.
  3. If you need gem dust immediately, destroy excess gems in the grinder.
  4. Destroy unneeded jewels to obtain gems and gem dust.

  1. Each use of blood extraction increases the misery of your prisoner and the damage from extraction. Lower their misery with specific fish to avoid losing your precious blood source.
  2. Blood merlot is superior to regular blood extraction as it consumes fewer health points and induces less misery.
  3. Use irradiant Gruel to raise your prisoner's blood quality to 100%. However, it's important to note that there is a 35% probability that your prisoner may undergo a mutation when using this method.


I hope with this guide you have achieved what you were aiming for today!
If you want to watch more guides, they can be found on my YouTube channel! I'm doing my best to create guides on both YouTube and Reddit, but I have a full-time job, so it's a bit hard to keep up with everything :(
Anyway, thank you for reading up to this point, and see you later!
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2023.05.31 18:18 TruthAndNail How do I (27f) tell a casual hookup (26m) that I wish he’d clean his sheets/towels?

I recently started dating/hooking up with this guy. He is really great and we have good adult time fun together. His apartment is very typical for a young single bachelor. Actually, I’d argue he’s probably cleaner than the average young single guy in the US. No judgment, I’m certainly not spotless in my own life and I try not to generalize, but hygiene standards are a factor when dating.
But his sheets are not clean. Not icky, but not clean. And his towels are… definitely not clean. Towels are important for the shower after adult time fun. He doesn’t have a rug or towel in his bathroom for when you step out of the shower either. Again, in my experience, kinda typical stuff for single dudes.
I’d avoid this whole situation if I could and just move activities to my place, but my current living situation (w/ parents) is not conducive to this type of relationship.
I’d like to fuck in a relatively clean, ideally made, bed and take a shower afterwards with a mostly clean towel. This is a very new type of arrangement, so some of these early things could kind of make or break it.
How do I explain this without sounding like I’m nagging or telling him to do his chores? Do I bring a towel over myself? Would that seem like I’m moving things in??? Do I say “hey dude, can we just make your bed really quick before we get into it? By the way, when is the last time you washed your sheets?” That sounds like a mood killer, but being dirty in a regular dirty way and not a sexy dirty way is admittedly a mood killer for me. Do I keep these thoughts to myself and not mention it at all and chalk this up as a very short-term casual relationship that ran its course?
If it helps to ease the discussion, there would be an increased incentive for sex if these things were cleaner. Like I literally would be in a better and more frequent mental place for sexy time if I knew these things were clean.
Never been in this situation in dating. Looking for advice or shared experiences.
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2023.05.31 18:17 Nd911 Pet clinic for unhoused & seniors 65+ this Friday at EG Food Bank.

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2023.05.31 18:17 Sl_reditt Renewal Project Of Taipei Main Station (In-Progress)

Renewal Project Of Taipei Main Station (In-Progress)
Hello!!! I'm a Taiwanese highschool student who is interested in the field of Architecture and now I'm on a self-led project on Taipei Main Station Renewal. The intention to start this project was that I believe Taipei Main Station and its nearby area need a redevelopment and regeneration to revitalize the Western district of Taipei.
By that I meant to improve business activities, more pedestrian-friendly designs, more jobs opportunities, better infrastructures, potentially improve of sustainability, economic growth, and so much more benefits!!!
The ultimate goal is to make the west district of Taipei thrive once again along side with the ongoing construction of Taipei Twin Towers and several other projects in the district. Creating public spaces, retail spaces, spaces for education(?), and office spaces. Resulting a new entertainment hub for Taipei, and not just a solely building for tourists to arrive and leave after 5 minutes to the MRT. As well as make the area more livable for the locals. Thus marks the idea of TOD ( Transit-oriented development ). The idea is similar to King Cross Renewal in London or Shibuya Station Redevelopment in Tokyo.
Anyways I just wanted to post in reddit here to ask what's your thoughts on Taipei Main Station. Cons and Pros. Could be anything that is above ground, the underground city is non of my business, lol. And any recommendations or suggestions that you would love to see in the redesigned Taipei Main Station and it's nearby area!!! At the end feel free to criticize or discuss about my current design!
Here are some images of what's going on now.
Light blue area is the space I'm designing atm

Front elevation

aerial view

An idea of sky garden

Progress atm

My Instagram for more updates around subjects of Architecture and other environmental concerns in Taiwan.
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2023.05.31 18:17 CottonCandySwirl_45 How were they able to buy a shed and neither have jobs? Don’t you need a job to take out a mortgage loan?

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2023.05.31 18:16 Nd911 Pet clinic for unhoused & seniors 65+ this Friday at EG Food Bank.

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2023.05.31 18:16 Tayraur Struggling with pneumonia once again and my friends, family, and coworkers continue to downplay the illness.

I have been dealing with pneumonia and was recovering from the illness and now is coming back again. I was sick for 2 months before I started getting better.
My two closest friends, mother, & grandmother, all pushed off my illness for the first month, telling me that it was bronchitis, I would be fine, people get sick all of the time and it’s normal. I was continually told that I was essentially overthinking and downplayed my symptoms.
At work, I have accommodated coworkers (because they refuse) to work on the front desk when they are feeling ill. During this entirety I was forced to work on the front desk still, regardless of me asking for a switch for a day because they didn’t want to. Excessive talking is very painful and the consistent coughing hurts as well.
When I got the diagnosis, it was, “Oh well, that sucks” and whenever I wanted to stay home to rest it was, “Sounds like you’re out of shape, a walk/just going shopping shouldn’t be hard for you,” and was left feeling guilty and bad about not feeling well. Was also told it’s because I’m not taking care of myself properly and if I was I wouldn’t have gotten sick to begin with.
My pneumonia is coming back again for round 2 about a month after I finished my last round of antibiotics and I’m back in the same boat. I feel hopeless and alone because nobody except for my partner seems genuinely concerned or cares that I am struggling with this. I was already downplayed saying that there’s no way it would be coming back and that it’s just a cold, when I know it is because of the pain that I’m in already.
I feel like I just want to give up and I don’t have anyone to confide in because I honestly feel like the majority of my friends & family couldn’t care any less unless I was on my death bed.
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2023.05.31 18:16 Iwan787 Ufo and sleep paralysis

Hello, this is my first time posting here and I d like to share dream I had last night.
I was lying in my bed with earphones on listening to music and I couldn't fall asleep. It was night and I was in some sort of half awake and half dream state. At some point I sinked into dreaming stateand different shapes and object started appering in my dream. It wasnt coherent narrative but random objects popping into my mind. Everything was fine until one dream or scene in my sleep where I could clearly see UFO hovering above my hometown at night. This was different from the others because mental image was so clear and vivid. Ufo had some protrusions coming from it and I could see it was silently rotating while moving. I remember thinking it is rotating in more than three dimensions. UFO had an oval shape. Right after this dream I had terrible sleep paralysis, hallucination where I was awake in my room and some sort of devilish claw or hand started appearing from the side of my bed an tried to pull me from my bed. Like there was some being under my bed trying to drag me down to floor. I started to yell as hard as I could since I couldnt move, but only few muffled sounds came from my mouth. Right afterwards the being whose hand it was suddenly apperared on top of other side of my bed, like a serpent who finally showed its head. Than it started to move towards me in snake like motion, this was all happening instantly and i remember there is not much I could have done so I started to move towards the being. The dream abruptly stopped and I realized I was lying in my bed and no one is around me. This in not my first sleep paralysis but this one had a UFO dream/vision/mental image preceeding it so I am wondering what is the connection?
Tldr; In half awake/dream state saw clearUFO vision unlike any other dream and imediately afterwards terrible sleep paralysis with being/demon harassing me.
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2023.05.31 18:16 bby_bambao $15 an hour... really?

I am looking for a new job and I want to take a break from nannying because I am so burnt out from WFH and it seems impossible to find a position where both parents work from out of the house. So, I'm looking for part time preschool teacher positions because I have experience as a teacher from like 6 years ago. And..... oof. The pay these schools are offering, even the nice schools, is abysmal. I live in a big city too so there are plenty of options... but the average pay these schools are offering for a part time teacher is $15 an hour. Really? That's about the same pay I was making 6 years ago!!! Six. Years. Ago!!! How is this possible? Working in childcare really feels so thankless sometimes. It makes me want to cry when I look at my options. I don't want to nanny anymore but it makes me so sad when I'm faced with the reality that I'll make more money nannying than any other job that I can get. I've been saying I want to leave nannying for about three years now but I keep going back to it because I just can't make as much money elsewhere, even with a college degree. :(
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2023.05.31 18:16 Euphrosyneee What is the right time to visit UB City to see supercars?

I've been living in Blr for 10+ years but barely got to see 2-3 Porsches till now. Want to see a lot more and I can't think of a better place than UB City. So what is the best time I could go there?
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2023.05.31 18:15 Trishuarora Things to do in Rishikesh

Rishikesh, often referred to as the"Yoga Capital of the World" is a serene and spiritual city situated in the foothills of the Himalayas in northern India. Renowned for its tranquil environment and sacred riverside location, Rishikesh has become a prominent destination for meditation and spiritual seekers from around the globe.
Meditation holds a significant place in the rich heritage and culture of Rishikesh. The city's serene ambiance, surrounded by lush green forests, towering mountains, and the holy Ganges River, creates an ideal setting for introspection and self-discovery. Many ashrams and meditation centers dot the landscape, offering a wide range of meditation practices, techniques, and teachings.
In Rishikesh, one can find various forms of meditation being practiced, including mindfulness meditation, transcendental meditation, Vipassana meditation, and many more. These practices help individuals develop a deep sense of inner peace, clarity of mind, and spiritual growth. The tranquil atmosphere and the presence of experienced teachers provide the necessary guidance and support for practitioners to delve into the depths of their consciousness.
Rishikesh also attracts spiritual seekers from various backgrounds and traditions, fostering an environment of cultural exchange and spiritual exploration. People come to Rishikesh not only to meditate but also to learn and gain insights from the wisdom of renowned spiritual masters and gurus who reside or visit the city.
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2023.05.31 18:15 jjjjjjjjabs13 Preferred Airline Partner?

Do most BigLaw firms have a preferred airline partner? Starting as a first-year associate in the fall in a city with a hub for United and American Airlines. Not expecting to travel much for clients at the start of my career, but I would like to know so I can book more flights with one of the two airlines and can benefit if/when I do travel for work.
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2023.05.31 18:15 baybee2004 FRANCE: What happens to my visa if I quit my job? (American expat)

Hello! I am an American who came to Paris on a work visa with a company I've been at for several years; it is an exchange type of program for which they funded my work visa and flight here. I funded the price for my husband's flight, our baggage, our dog, and our housing etc. myself. I haven't been happy at my job for a long time, but I thought that the more relaxed atmosphere in Paris would breathe some life into me and my career.
However, the opposite proved to be true. The work atmosphere here is even more hostile and I am miserable. However, we've already paid for the rent for our entire time here. My question is this: If I quit at my current job, what happens to my visa? If we were to use our savings to cover the next couple months, could we continue to reside here until our apartment contract ends? Would I be eligible for a different job?
We had a grand vision for our time here in the wonderful city of Paris, and yet I've been so depressed that I've hardly left our apartment since arriving. We are so disappointed. I tried to work with them for accommodations for my depression and have been treated awfully in response.
If you feel bad for my company, don't. They are a global company known for treating their employees like collateral damage so I don't think quitting would put anyone out.
TLDR: I am so miserable at my job and would like to quit, but I am not sure if my visa is negated if I do. Help!
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2023.05.31 18:15 willywalloo Fun to run: lots local filing deadlines for City Commission, and school boards across the state is tomorrow.

Fun to run: lots local filing deadlines for City Commission, and school boards across the state is tomorrow.
So many local issues going on. Personal rights, figuring out ways to curb hate/anger, growing city amenities, determining local ordinances, protect books/reading, bringing people together, perhaps you’re excited about meeting people / door knocking to listen for the issues.
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2023.05.31 18:15 chidorichampion FAP Application Question

could anyone recommend how i answer the part where it asks how much my parents help me on food and rent? im 26 going on 27 but i moved in to live with them in the middle of last year (first half of the year i was paying rent in a different city). im grateful to live with them and save costs there, but i do also lose almost 2k a month on student loan payments at the moment since last fall. thank you!
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2023.05.31 18:14 Asleep-Childhood-471 The Role of Bedding in Temperature Regulation for Optimal Sleep

The Role of Bedding in Temperature Regulation for Optimal Sleep
The bedding we choose—including the sheets, blankets, and mattress—has a big impact on how well our body regulates temperature while we sleep Some materials are additionally made to actively transmit heat farther from the body of the sleeper, aiding in the maintenance of a more stable body temperature.
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2023.05.31 18:14 Sprollie Advice for my friend F20 with invasive parents M45 F45?

My friends (F20) parents, especially her mom are extremely over protective, tracking her locarion, bank account etc and calling/texting constantly when she's not at home. It's gotten to the point my friend is genuinely getting depressed by this, and anxious to where abouts she goes, trying to not go out of bounds.
She has a car since she got a full license a couple months ago, with one of those apple tracker thingies and she's not allowed to go outside our small town. Even though we had to travel to another town for college, she had to take the bus/train cause she's not allowed to drive outside our town (she actually did it for the last 2 weeks of college without her parents finding out, after she hit a minor breaking point and went against them).
It got even worst after 3 days ago, in an excited impulse we decided to travel to a city about an hour and half away to go bowling in the evening. I was surprised she's actually going to travel that far but she was super excited and serious, saying she's home alone anyways (turns out later her parents got home much earlier). We were 3 minutes away from our destination then her mom suddenly called, my friend got a little worried. Her mom immediately sounded suspicious asking what she is doing, specifically where she is, what time she'll be home etc my friend started to panic and I was just mouthing a location in our town so she repeats it. Her mom didnt sound convinced and asked her to come home soon.
Not long later her dad calls and asks the same, saying that on his tracker app it's coming up she's in that city. Now my friend went into a full panic attack, trying to tell her dad it must be a glitch, why would she go to that city at this time (it was past 9pm when they called) etc, her parents asked her to come home immediately, she froze while crying looking at me as to what to say, I mouthed and nodded "ok", which she repeated and hung up. The panic got worst because she knew she cant make it home quickly, we we're an hour and a half away from her home. We had to pull over just so she can calm down, but she rang her mom and just told her the truth. Her mom just kept saying how she's so worried and how the road is so dangerous and it'll be dark soon but she needs her to calm down cause she can't drive in distress, assured her she only wants her to get home safely and once she does they wont talk about the whole situation everyone can forget about it. She also kept asking who else is in the car with us multiple times even though my friend kept saying it's just us two?? Either way my friend only has one other friend who was away, her mom knew that. It was the whole I'm not mad, I'm disappointed talk. But that was just because she knew I was there.
She told me the next day that wasn't the case, she got a whole talking to, her mom told other family members about it, who knows what else and got stricter 'protecting'. Also her mom tracked her through find my iPhone before even calling her so she already knew where we were when she called her. She now has to check in with her mom before she does anything, today we went for a walk, and after we wanted to get food somewhere she had to come home to ASK FOR PERMISSION!! Her mom was about to say no until she saw me by the door, she was not happy about it at all though.
I'd love to be able to help her some way or give her advice but all I can really do right now is be there to listen to her. But I can see its getting to her more and more, I can see how more anxious she is getting, and she's terrified to disobey them now. She'd love to move out but she unfortunately can't afford it yet. She feels she's only going to end up going no contact with them when she'll be able to move out, but she's stuck at home for now. She's a great driver and has never done anything dumb like drugs/drinking/not coming home till late night etc that would cause her mom to not trust her the way she does. She's simply the youngest child, the other 2 don't live at home anymore.
Sorry for the massive rant style and messy post. I'll appreciate any advice/comments!
TLDR: Friend's parents are extremely protective and invasive
Lenght of relationship: 20 years (I had to put this in or it wouldn't let me post)
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2023.05.31 18:14 mo0dair AITA for moving my boyfriend’s laundry piles from the bed to the floor when I wanted to go to sleep when he usually does the laundry for us

I am recently diagnosed with ADHD and have a really difficult job in the healthcare field where I end up working a lot at strange hours. Sometimes I am exhausted when I get home from work and struggle to do things like laundry and cooking. My boyfriend definitely is great in taking on more of these responsibilities and I am very grateful. When I moved into my boyfriend’s place, I brought my laundry basket with dividers that helps me w my ADHD to sort my clothes properly and motivates me to do laundry better. I asked him if he could stop leaving his clothes on the bedroom floor or on top of my desk or laundry basket lid because it makes it difficult for me to stay organized. He continued to put his laundry on top of my desk in the bedroom or on top of the laundry basket lid so that I have to lift his things off of it before I put my things in it. After asking him to be better about putting his used clothes away he’s going to bed, I gave up and just started also putting my clothes on floor, assuming it didn’t bother him, because he does this as well. This week, he organized his laundry into piles on the bed and I moved the piles to the floor so I could go to bed. He was furious and I was confused because he often puts his clothes on the floor but told him I don’t have to do that again, I’m happy to do what he wants me to do because I love him. Then today, I planned to do laundry for us and I asked him to put the laundry he wants washed on the bed before he goes for work. He did not put any laundry on the bed so I texted him to ask him which clothes need to be washed (he likes to wear certain shirts again so they last longer). He called me and told me that he had already organized his piles a few days ago and that I put them on the floor and ruined them. We got in a huge fight over the phone. I did his laundry anyway and just smelled everything to make sure it needed washing and am hanging to dry to make sure it doesn’t get damaged. But AITA?
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2023.05.31 18:14 forevrboredatwork Daily Commuter Car Advice

Hi, looking for advice on purchasing a new sedan. Trying to spend <$15K for a used sedan that will be driven daily to and from work in a city. Car will likely take a beating on city roads and drivers but hoping to find something to last 3-5 years without major issues.
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2023.05.31 18:14 Gold-Load-6895 18 [F4M] #Sweden, looking for my forever person, hoping he will read this <3

hey! i don't really know how to write this but i'll try my best to explain what i'm searching for without making the post too long. it'll probably be pretty long still tho haha.
sooo where should i start. i'm basically making this post because i wanna find someone. someone i can talk about anything to, who comforts me when i'm feeling insecure and cheers me up when i'm sad. someone who wants to be mine, and only mine. my biggest dream is to find the person i'll be with forever, who won't leave me for someone else even tho i may not be perfect. i'm not sure i'll find this person, ever. but i'll rather try and fail then not try at all and never know what would have happened if i did it.
well, i guess i should talk some more about myself now. i'm currently not in a very good state of mind because of various reasons. i'm very very insecure and therefore i won't send photos until i feel fully comfortable with doing it. this may take up to several months. if this is a dealbreaker for you i completely understand it, but i just wanna be as honest as i can so that we won't waste each others time. on the days i don't do a lot, just mostly sitting in my bed. if you wanna tell me that i should be doing more or that i'm lazy please don't. i'm working on myself and my mental + physical health so i'm fully aware of my situation. i really don't wanna sound rude but a lot of people try to educate me/tell me what to do when i tell them about this and i'm sick of it.
something i really like to do is writing. i wouldn't necessarily say that i'm good at it but it's a hobby i enjoy a lot. the coolest thing ever would be becoming a published author. that's like a childhood dream for me haha.
the things i'm looking for in a guy is someone honest, loyal, monogamous, who won't cheat, is a bit jealous and overprotective, who does not care too much about weight or looks and is patient. i'd preferably want someone who can provide for me and who doesn't feel like it's a big need to have kids. i'm actually really confused about if i want children or not. both choices obviously has it pros and cons. it's also really important that you're talkative and like having voicecalls. i'm up for one anytime so just tell me if you're in the mood for calling :)
soooo yeahhh, i kinda think that's the most important things. feel free to send me a message, me dms are always open <3
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